Posted by BarbiexHardcore on 4/26/10 at 2:09 pm
The Sexlopedia is here with another odd one from JAPAN?!?!?
If you remember, Japan is known for the interestingly weird stuff. This one is called Frotting!
You free internet porn lovers have definitely seen this sexual fetish. You just don’t know you have!
How to recognize Frotting: When Japanese business men take the bus home from work and they start to rub their crotch against unsuspecting people. Usually those unsuspecting (slutty) Japanese school girls, who then continue to be molested by the guy… you see the plot here.
Frot originally came as a slang term to describe 2 males have non-penetrative sex by rubbing erect penises together, but it has come a long way since then. The main attraction to this fetish is just doing something wrong. Kind of that naughty “little kid” situation; when you tell them they can’t have cookie it’s all they want! When full grown men know they can’t do sexual things to random strangers they find places and scenarios in which they can do it, without getting in trouble. I’m sure if a woman just said “hey come stand next to me in the kitchen and rub your dick on my leg while I cook” then it wouldn’t be pleasing. It’s the “wrong” aspect of it that makes it so fun. But hey, that makes everything fun really!
I don’t know how much I would suggest doing this, due to the fact that you can be arrested and spend the night in jail. Unless you try it in Japan, from all the videos I’ve seen, no one really seems to mind. Now get to rubbing!!!!
But seriously, in Japan, not America!
<3 Barbie
Categories: Sexlopedia
Tags: bus, frot, frotting, japan, Rubbing, Sexlopedia
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Posted by Nikki CoXXX on 4/26/10 at 10:56 am
It’s more painful than a Brazilian wax. More traumatizing than sitting through, The Miracle of Life, countless times during your high school years. And yes, more heartbreaking than watching Leonardo DiCaprio die at the end of Titanic. I am talking about chasing after the same asshole… more than once.
It’s safe to say that women like to go after men that are unattainable. For some reason, we like the challenge of trying to fix something that is beyond repair. We think that our stellar personalities (and our ability to give awesome blowjobs) will convince a man that there is in fact, NO ONE more amazing than ourselves. Well, sorry to burst your bubble, but some men are stupid, and they never figure this out until you are married with kids and are unattainable to them.
I met Greg when I was 18 years old, and after a friendship that consisted of five years of pent up sexual tension, we crossed a barrier that, at least in my eyes, is a one way street. “The Fiends Who Try To Be More Than Friends, Without Fucking Up A Friendship.”
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Categories: Jane Says, Nikki CoXXX Says
Tags: assholes, blowjobs, dating, fucking, getting burned, mistakes, oral sex, ruined friendships, Sex
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/26/10 at 9:15 am
Oh boob tube, I’ve lived with you and without you and have loved it on both sides of the fence! I got SO MUCH MORE accomplished without a TV but I was constantly “missing out” on pop culture references and shows like United States of Tara. I knew a few people with multiple personalities, sometimes it was funny – other times it was really difficult. So far, I think Tara is missing is a “baby” or “child” personality – she seems to have all the others.
If you haven’t tuned in yet to this show on Monday nights, you should give it a watch. Tara has a hot and patient husband, a shallow sister, a daughter too smart (or high) for her own good and a gay/questioning son…oh, and like, 5 personalities.
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Categories: FMK
Tags: Brie Larson, John Corbett, Multiple Personalities, Patton Oswalt, Rosemarie DeWitt, showtime, Toni Collette, United States Of Tara
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/23/10 at 12:12 pm
I don’t know if you Dancing with the Stars fans are aware of -the chopped to shit and then cut altogether- advertisement that was for Lane Bryant’s plus size lingerie that was supposed to air the other night… but believe it or not, it happened.
Yep, ABC reportedly wouldn’t show it because there was too much “cleavage”. CLEAVAGE. The same station that puts out the shows Desperate Housewives, Grey’s Anatomy, Wife Swap and runs Victora Secret’s, McDonalds, the latest “get thin” pill advertisements is saying “too much” cleavage.
So it is ok to pump us images of Big Macs and Eva Langoria in her panties but a plus size model is just TOO MUCH for America… the fattest nation in the world.
I am sick and tired of these waif models in Cosmo or Vogue magazine telling (showing) me what the ONLY model of beauty is. On the other side of the coin I’m not sticking up for Fat America either. I applaud companies who use real looking people for their commercials at least they are trying to keep it real. I also applaud better living advocates like Jamie Oliver (coincidentally another show on the ABC network).
Airing a Victora’s Secret commercial back to back with our youth stuffing their faces with a McDonalds.
Airing Dove commercials with all body shapes and ethnics and then showing Axe commercials with the “thin, hipster, emo, club girl” body image (both made by the same company!)
IS SENDING MIXED MESSAGES !!
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Categories: News, FLASH, Health & Statistics, Jane Says
Tags: ABC Network, alan greenspan, Axe, Body Image, confidence, Cosmo Magazine, Dancing With the Stars, desperate housewives, Dove, Fat America, Grey's Anatomy, Jamie Oliver, Lane Bryant, McDonalds, Plus Size Lingerie, Victoria's Secret, Vogue Magazine
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/23/10 at 10:09 am
While results vary across studies, the consensus is that the average human penis is approximately 5 – 6 inches in length.
According to Wiki and a bunch of other stuff I’ve read over the years.
But that is nothing new, that fact circulates faster and further than any other I’ve ever known. What you DON’T KNOW is that a regular original Hershey bar is approximately 6 inches long as well. Coincidence? I think not!
Keep dreaming kiddo
Categories: Fact
Tags: average penis size, hershey chocolate bar, wiki
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Posted by BarbiexHardcore on 4/23/10 at 8:31 am
Movies show lit candles, rose petals and slow music, there is some truth here but it wont work for everyone. If you want to set the mood for some good loving and I am here to explain how.
I am aware the Friday is usually a fun fact and a Jane Says, but not a lot of people ask me questions on my formspring. In fact the last question I received was “how do you eat a reese’s peanut butter cup?” Not exactly something that is important enough (or erotic enough) to share, so lucky for you I realized that men pretty much suck at setting a mood. I understand that you can only think with one head at a time and all you need is a low cut shirt to get you going, but women tend to be more complex.
The one thing you truly need to understand about women is that we need to be mentally stimulated first before you can do anything else. Setting the mood isn’t always necessarily the atmosphere or the room, it starts with the attitude. The first tip on setting the mood is to prove you’re sexually confident by telling (sending your girl texts etc) telling her exactly what you’d like to do to her. Paint her a picture with your words because women start to make a nice mental image of those pictures and then before we know it we’re wet for you!
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Categories: How To
Tags: confidence, hollywood's idea of romance, setting the mood, Sexting, stimulating, texting, women
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/22/10 at 12:24 pm
My “Stunt Cocks” love their job.
My guys don’t star in porno, they test products for me and give me a full report. I guess I should collectively call them “Mikey” instead. You remember the Life Cereal Commercial where the kids wouldn’t try the cereal and they gave it to Mikey who ended up liking the cereal.
Recently Elbow Grease Lubricants and I were chatting on Twitter, and they ended up sending me a few samples for my stunt cock Mikey to try out. After I dug him out of masturbation heaven, this is what he had to say about one of the oldest lubricant companies out there.
Jane threw me in mostly blind to this one, made me do my research and learn the product. Since mine came in a little sample pouch there wasn’t much info to start with. She told me it was great to jerk off with, and not to use the whole packet in one session.
Facts:
- Their website says THIS one is the lube that started it all for the company back in 1979.
- Mineral oil based thick cream lubricant.
- Safe, long-lasting premium lubricant.
- Should only be used with polyurethane condoms and should not be used with latex.
Fun:
She didn’t tell me the gay community also loves this product for anal sex. That I figured out on my own with some googling - much to my girlfriend’s delight. I can understand why.
I opened up some vids on pornhub.com so I wouldn’t get this stuff all over the place. I’ve never used creams, so I didn’t know what to expect. Opening the packet was easy, I hate packets I can’t open, especially in the bedroom. You lose the moment if you’re fumbling.
I used a little less than a third of the packet, put some on my cock and some on my hand and started stroking. It started out as a cream which was cool because it doesn’t immediately make a mess. No drop cloth needed for this lube, it stays where you want it.
After a few minutes it melted. Its the only way to describe it. It went from cream, to, liquid butter sorta. I nearly came right then because it was a surprise and felt really great. I made it through a few videos and had a good time with this stuff.
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Categories: Reviews, Lubes & Lotions, Reviews
Tags: Anal, Anal Sex, aresnal, Elbow Grease Lubricants, Elbow Grease Original, Life Cereal, masturbation, masturbation cream, mikey, pornhub.com, stunt cock
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/22/10 at 10:46 am
BarbieXHardcore once described working at a porn shop as such “Its like a rabbit hole. You fall in deeper or get out, but either way you’re never the same as before. “
This statement is beyond true for the xxx industry, but it is also true for glass toys.
Glass is the toy industry’s rabbit hole, their kiwi, their champagne on a Tuesday, and your vacation from “the usual”.
“Kiwi” you ask? The majority of you have had a kiwi fruit. I’ll take a gamble and say you like it. But why? What does it taste like if you had to describe it to someone else? Having difficulties? Same thing can be said for a glass toy. They fun, different, exotic feeling and delicious. Like having champagne on a Tuesday glass can feel like “a special treat” and a break from the normal toy. Some pieces can get expensive, but Don Wands keeps it real.
It is difficult to say more without describing what happened to me when I came upon this rabbit hole.
There I was, pacing my huge warehouse of a store looking to take something new home. I’ve seen glass toys, I saw that Real Sex Episode of them on the boat testing them out. But I’m a Hitachi girl, I like power, and vibration, and external stimulation. My favorite toy isn’t the All Mighty Rabbit, its a dopey little clit toy; an unsung hero. Not only am I a Hitachi girl, but I’m also a “I’ve got everything” girl when it comes to sex toys. Still, I was skeptical about glass.
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Categories: Reviews, Reviews, Toys
Tags: ++++-, borosiliate, Clear Nubby Melon Crank, Don Wands, glass toy, glow industries, nonporous, phthalate free
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Posted by Justin LiGreci on 4/21/10 at 10:33 pm
The following is a summary of an article about to be published in Social Science & Medicine.
It deals with male dominance over a woman’s reproductive health. When I first read through the article I was taken aback, you hear about the anecdotal horror stories and everyone knows some girl who was forced to do something terrible by her partner concerning her own body. Whether its domestic rape or an unwanted abortion, control of another persons reproductive systems is physically and emotionally damaging. We are not talking about a BDSM role-play where one partner is put into chastity, or having a rape-fantasy, but actual day-to-day control of another persons body – against that persons will.
PARTNERS’ CONTROL OF WOMEN’S REPRODUCTIVE OPTIONS MAY LEAD TO
ABORTIONS AND UNWANTED BIRTHS
Male reproductive control-which takes place when a woman’s partner imposes his re productive intentions on her through intimidation, threats or actual violence-occurs among women who have experienced intimate partner violence, according to “Male Reproductive Control of Women Who Have Experienced Intimate Partner Violence in the United States
<The full article can be found here> ,” by Ann Moore.
The authors conducted in-depth interviews with 71 women aged 18-49 who had a history of intimate partner violence; they were recruited in 2007 from a domestic violence shelter, a freestanding abortion clinic and a family planning clinic providing a full range of reproductive health services. The study found that 53 respondents (74%) reported having experienced some type of reproductive control. Women reported that their partners threatened them before sexual intercourse and insisted that they were going to make them pregnant. They were also prevented from obtaining or using contraception. During sexual intercourse, women experienced a range of behaviors by partners actively seeking to cause a pregnancy. Women reported forced or unwanted intercourse (sometimes unwanted only because it was unprotected), failure to withdraw when that was the agreed upon method of contraception, refusal to use condoms or manipulation of condoms to render them ineffective, and violent rape.
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Categories: Jane Says, Justin Says
Tags: abuse, amnesty international, male reproductive control of women who have experienced intimate partner violence in the united states, no choice, sexual & reproductive rights, social science & medicine, spouse abuse
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/21/10 at 12:42 pm
Dear Jane, What is the best form of teasing for someone playing hard to get?
<3 Anon on Formspring
Dear Anon FS subscriber,
There are many ways to play the dating game, hard to get is one of them. I’ve found with people who use this strategy, you should turn the court on them and gain the upper hand instead.
Right now, the ball is in their court. You are chasing them, following their lead, following their rules but you want to tease back so that they have to come after you. It lets you know they are into you, and not just messing with your head.
- You can do this by not playing into their game.
- Buy their friend a drink instead and see if jealousy puts a fire under their ass.
- Stop being the first to call or txt, they might wonder where you went and contact you.
- Do something overly sweet, or exaggerate a move and embarrass them a little, it’ll draw attention to the game and show that YES you get they are playing hard to get, look how SILLY they look doing it.
If you want something, go get it. I understand the cat and mouse games… but if you both go home and masturbate, no one really wins.
Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Dating Game, Playing Hard to Get
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