Sexlopedia
Posted by Chanel Covington on 6/28/11 at 11:00 am
I was trolling twitter (as I do daily), and one of my twitter friends, @Vukizzle mentioned a term, or part of a term in a tweet. I figured, if she didn’t know what it was called, and I didn’t know what it meant, that some of you might not know what it is either…
Here is the tweet that inspired my research…
“RT @CandyAppleAlly @Vukizzle a kapto-wha? — basically it means I like to fuck in front of mirrors :)”
Source: www.twitter.com/vukizzle
After a little work on the internet here is the www.wikipedia.org definition:
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Categories: Sexlopedia
Tags: fetish, mirrors, twitter, wikipedia
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/23/11 at 12:29 pm
Just like us sex industry folks have conventions, so do Furries. They’re just as popular as RenFairs with the largest FurrCon (FurtherConfusion) hosting almost 3,000 people.
Imagine, 3k Furries in one spot? And ONLY 3k Furrs... there are far more who couldn't make the convention. The likelihood of one of your friends being a furr and isn't telling you, is possible! :D
During Geek Conventions like ComicCon, there are people decked out in costumes, CosPlay, and have various reasons to go to the Con. They’re life long fans looking to talk to famous writers and artists, they’re looking for new swag and gear, they want to meet with friends they only talk to online and at conventions. And of course, the hook-ups and sexin. They get to be themselves and not have to worry about the outside world for a few days.
FurRCons are the same way. The convention itself is innocent, interesting, and encompasses the entire Furr community. There are writers, artists, fans, games, seminars and tons of costumed people totally in their Fursona.
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Categories: Sexlopedia, Series
Tags: bad dragon, furry
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/22/11 at 1:49 pm
Dear Jane, <— Ask me a question, as you can see, anything goes!
My girlfriend wants a pony–me! However, we can’t seem to find any places online that is a good store for pony play gear. Do you have any suggestions?
There are a few places I can send you to that I know of and some tips on how to get the effects and stick to a budget. Unfortunately _______ play fetishists need deep pockets depending on how real they want to get. Doesn’t matter which, but the bigger the animal and the more real you want to get, the more money it is going to cost.
BUT the gear is beautiful, and crafted well, and really helps you both get into the head space required to have a good time with it. You’ll feel more proud as a pony in good gear too.
I’m not a pony player, but I did a pony girl photo set once (and I’m a gear slut – the more, the better) and there was SO MUCH gear involved. I had a really great time! /memories.
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Categories: Dear Jane, Sexlopedia, Series
Tags: BDSM, fetish, furry, Pony Play
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/22/11 at 11:10 am
Instead of doing several posts for Furry vernacular, I’m going to keep this post going for all the fun Furry related words and terms. I’ll alphabetize eventually.
Some of the terms are just sounds they make because they aren’t fully human or human at all. Others are converted human words so they’re more fun for the furries. Some are definitions of things they do. I’ve heard/found many terms that pertain to conventions and online communities; I wont include these because they’re mostly acronyms that pertain to any online community. Ex) Flame: To belittle, harass, insult, or mock another user or concept. A flame is distinctive in that it is not intended to create constructive discussion.
Although the online terms are important to the furry community because that is where 90% of their social interaction takes place, most of them are known to any online user over the age of 15.
Kemonomimi: Is an anime and manga terminology that describes characters that possess animal like features. The characters will be predominately human and any real animal characteristics are minimal
Yerfday/Whelpday: Birthday.
Scritch: The act of gently scratching someone’s back, neck or between the ears in an affectionate manner using one’s fingernails (or more lightly with fingertips), or the claws. Commonly used to show affection, but not to be done in general to strangers.
Fursuit: The costume; which can be basic ears and a tail, but is usually referring to the full mascot costumes.
Shiney!: Any object that reflects light technically. Species such as raccoons and ferrets like to collect them. But usually refers to anything that a furry wants/likes. Ex. They see a cool set of pouches to add to a costume, or they see someone they like … they’ll exclaim SHINEY!
Kyoot: Cute. Sickingly, omg, annoying cute.
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Categories: Sexlopedia, Series, Sexlopedia
Tags: furry
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/20/11 at 2:00 pm
It is true, not everyone wearing cat ears on their heads has the same reasons or identification with being a Furry. Although in general, a furry is an anthropomorphic animal.
They aren’t just mammals (or feline for that matter)…although the “Fur” term encompasses them all as an umbrella term They can be reptilian, avian, aquatic, and mythical aka scalies, featheries, cetaceans, herps and taurs respectively.
There are also hybrids, crossbreeds, and mixes, and the community has their own feelings towards the Sqir-griff-fox-orc-ians (I just made that creature up). The people under the avatars are either looking to be creative or try to give each quirk/animal they identify with a physical characteristic. Think… Dragoear. A cross I just made up that is part dragon, part bear. Strong, tough, breathes fire, territorial, can fly but loves to cuddle, sleep and rub on things. Actually, do you remember the TV show the Wuzzels?; they crossed animals too.
Much of the misunderstanding stems from lack of education and how the subcultures are broken up. As far as I can tell, these are the major groups of Furries:
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Categories: Sexlopedia, Series
Tags: furry, wuzzels
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/20/11 at 11:17 am
A few furries at Furcon
I too long ago received a question on Formspring that simply said “What’s the deal with furries”. I laughed when thinking 2 things.
1. I was waiting for this question.
2. This is going to take much more than one post for me. So I’ve made it a series. Forgive me if I get link happy or wordy, but this is a fun adventure.
I met my first Furry in college before I had any clue about the community. Before I knew what Second Life was or Furcadia (we’re all beginners at some point or another, right?) For me, I was on the BDSM sites, and nsfw Literotica at that point. Role playing for me stopped in Rhy’din… how’s that for dating myself? “Pets” to me were humans in a slave role… no ears, no tails. I bumped into one or two, but I’d shrug and move onto the next chat room… it just wasn’t what I was looking for.
Didn’t think it was this thriving? multiplying? hopping community.
She was cute I thought, Jnco jeans, little tops, ears, reddish brown hair in a pony tail and lots of cuddling…well… more of a nuzzle really. I liked her, a lot. We became fast friends, she told me about Furries, and I told her about BDSM. She determined I was a Squirrel, I insisted I was a Kender and on the friendship went. Yeah, we were those weirdos, but we loved it.
Anyway… College, especially where I went, was so free to be themselves (aka hippy college) I don’t think it was a big deal for her to “come out” (to me, anyway). Plus, my curiosity always took over, question after question -
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Categories: Sexlopedia, Series, Sexlopedia
Tags: furcadia, furries, furry, rhy'din, second life
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Posted by JaneBlow on 6/7/11 at 11:00 am
Summer is here! It is officially Lechercraft season!!
If people usually bed down and stick with one person over the winter months… can you guess what this term means?
If you guessed “One Night Stand,” then pat yourself on the back and get out before they wake up!
A Lecher is a man who gives into excessive sexual indulgence / Craft is an art, trade, or skill.
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Tags: lechercraft, one night stand
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Posted by JaneBlow on 5/24/11 at 11:00 am
These are a few of my favorite thiiiiiiiings… If there is one thing I love and appreciate, it is Coprolalia. It is right up there with knowing the term Amomaxia.
Coprolalia is the technical term for ‘talking dirty’ and I’m adding ‘during sex’.
For me, fucking a dirty wordsmith, is heaven. Just a few select words can send me to orgasm; and the words echo in my mind until next time. Just don’t confuse this with involuntary-coprolalia notably found in people who have Tourrettes Syndrome.
Original Fact via @WtfSexFacts
See Also: Your Paraphilia Word Of The Day: Narratophilia via @DarkGracie
Categories: Sexlopedia
Tags: coprolalia, Dirty Talk, narratophilia, Talking Dirty
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Posted by JaneBlow on 5/3/11 at 12:00 pm
Here is another one brought to you by my boss. Of course this is one of those “spoke of, but not highly recommended to do” sex moves. If you do, please tell us about it – if you don’t, thanks.
To accomplish The Operator you have to call your partner’s parent with their own phone while you’re having sex with them… then hand over the phone so they talk. You’re connecting the call, thus making you The Operator.
Please hold while I connect your call — Beware, although this is a dick move, “something a guy would do”… traditionally most operators were women – Thank you, and have a good day!
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Tags: Sexlopedia, the operator
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Posted by JaneBlow on 4/26/11 at 12:27 pm
So. I got my Period last week. It happens. Ya know, Out of Order… I deal, move on, it happens again. When Broken, it throws off my taste buds and my ability to cook, gives me weird dreams and throws off my brain a little. Last week, it had me thinking of all the stupid things we call Menstruation and what happens when we mix it with sex acts. Kind of like that Metallica album cover they mushed blood and cum together and called it art (Rainbow Kiss, anyone?).
When I ride the Cotton Pony, I’m not always in sexy mood… other times I’m On The Rag I want to fuck all week. There’s no rhyme or reason to it, but sometimes it is difficult to find a person who wouldn’t mind earning their Red Wings. Which made me think, what other terms are there? Because Red Wings is just for giving oral sex on a woman who is getting a visit from her Aunt Flo; yet it is used universally to also mean bloody sex.
Mother Nature and sex… what I found was called The Rusty Buckle (ie, the bloody spot above the penis from making contact with a bloody vagina, maybe some splashing is involved). Well… that didn’t really cut it for me either… that is more of an after affect of fucking a woman during That Time of the Month, just like Red Wings is.
So. I came up with Slaying the Sanguine Dragon. The Curse gives us gals a bad reputation for being bitchy thus the dragon, and Sanguine means “reddish” and often is used to describe/interchangeable for blood, the slaying part is where I make it manly for you guys. I mean, c’mon, Rusty Buckle? We can do better than that, no? You’ve got a mighty sward sheathed in your pants, be a man, slay the dragon!
Bonus points if you wipe the blood across your chest after she orgasms and call it War Paint.
Use it well and make me proud guys!
PS. Don’t urbandictionary.com Bacon Love, might ruin bacon for you for a little while. People could be so gross, *cough*.
Categories: Sexlopedia
Tags: Aunt Flo, blood, menstruation, Mother Nature, On the Rag, Period, Rainbow Kiss, Ride the Cotton Pony, Rusty Buckle, Slaying the Sanguine Dragon, The Curse
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