Jane! I need some assistance. My guy and I have an awesome sex life and he’s amazing at everything he does. The sex lasts for hours, its daring, kinky, filthy (in the good/clean kind of way) and animalistic with a touch of D&S. Anyway, the thing is… Oral is fantastic he eats it better than anyone ever has and I love making love to his cock with my mouth. My problem is, that I suck at incorporating my hands. Never been one to give a hand job, and never use them when it comes to giving head. My guy likes blow jobs, and I must keep him happy… but I suck at it. Any suggestions? HELP! I must keep my man satisfied since he makes it goal of his to do the same for me :)
The easiest way to incorporate your hands into the mix is to stroke his balls as if Sherlock Holms was “thinking” with his fingers on his chin. As you pull your head up, slide your fingers up the sides of his balls, as your head goes down, move your hand down. You can “warn” him that you’re going to try something new so he can concentrate on the feeling and not how you look a little spastic trying to coordinate your movements. You’ll find a rhythm eventually with practice.
The other easy way to incorporate your hands is making an “ok” sign with your fingers wrapping them around his dick and then putting them by your mouth, so that your hand/head are in the same place as you go up and down on him. To make your mouth feel like it doesnt end – you can wrap the rest of your fingers around him too. Just make sure your hand doesn’t leave your mouth – kinka like you’re coughing into your fist if I had to describe it.
The last thing you can do is get a cheapy stroker from your local porn shop – and practice giving hand jobs that way – the tool can help you, plus, they feel better than your hand does anyway. THEY can jerk off themselves, some even see it as a chore and delight in a good hand job. If a girl sucks at it, it is even worse for the poor guy – lol.
After a while, your hand will help your mouth and vice versa – practice practice practice ;)
I use these tricks all the time, because I don’t like hand jobs (and really love giving head). So I always go for a half n’ half. I find hand jobs boring and therefore found ways to NOT make it a “job”.
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