Dear Jane,
How does a proper prostate massage work?
The prostate is located a few inches into a man’s ass, it is easily found if he is laying on his back or side, or heck… on his knees when you place a finger inside his has and curl it towards his belly button.
He should be fairly aroused and warmed up with plenty of foreplay and rubbing his ass to “tell the body” something is going to happen to it, just like you would for a woman’s ass. As the famous Tristan Taormino says “You can tell a lot from sticking your finger in someone’s ass,” and she is correct. You will know immediately if you should slow down, if they are nervous and a slew of other emotions.
Your asshole doesn’t lie.
Basically you insert a finger (or two), or a small curved toy to start with (make sure your nails are short and clean, and the toy has a flared base) and use a bunch of a thicker water based lube, or a nice silicone lube… and gently stroke in that curvy motion. Side to side, straight over it, around it… you’ll feel the gland because it puffs up when aroused.
The prostate is what helps a man get hard, it helps make seminal fluid and also helps to expel it. You are massaging this glad to a new high which is why it feels so good. Mussels like a good massage, if you massage glands they respond as well.
You may lose your erection, you may not. The sensations are said to be “deep”, and “intensify” any sex you are having if you are stimulating your prostate with a man friendly ass toy at the same time. A man can have a very strong orgasm, or several little ones (like a woman). Ejaculate also usually leaks out of the penis instead of shoots; prostate massage could also be known as milking a cock.
It is an intense, personal experience that needs to be approached slowly, with lubricant and a patient open mind… or it’ll be more awkward than hot and you’ll likely not enjoy it.
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