By definition via Dictionary.com, a Taboo is something society has deemed improper or unacceptable. Doesn’t matter if it is a word, action, or thought. But I don’t think anything is too taboo to at least discuss.
Some of you feel anal sex is taboo. I don’t agree. I understand how you feel, the reasoning and all. Religious arguments, it’s a dirty place, etc. But it isn’t “improper” enough to warrant being called Taboo (in my opinion anyway). Naughty maybe, risque` is another good one, kinky is fun… but anal sex being taboo? no.
Links are to wikipedia.com
When I hear taboo, I think of the really hardcore believers out there; the people who go beyond rape play, edge play, age play, and being furries or anthros. It is difficult enough for the general public to try to understand people who enjoy or even need such play to get off sexually. They are literally edgy and kinky.
But those who really delve into taboo subjects and become them, like the people into Incest (consensual or not), Bestiality/Zoophilia and Pedophilia are who wins the taboo argument to me. They are truly acting against the way the majority of society feels.
Or are they?
When the world is against a word, action, or thought the believers either rally for their cause and wage a war for their freedom of beliefs or they go underground. But you only get any light shed on these topics unless someone gets caught or the cause gets big enough.
Whether you are interested or not, I did some careful research and found some curious websites that shed even more light on these taboos. With the amount of mistake hits DAPS.TV gets for people looking for a dog or pony fucking a woman, I figured it was time to Google.
What I found (and already knew about) was the plethora of thriving taboo communities. With the internet, and its anonymity, you’d never know you were working with or even dating a Zoophile.
If you need to get something off your chest, I suggest doing it there, they seem to be safe spaces. Don’t turn those spaces into a big shit storm. Whether you condone or condemn, treat the websites like museums… look but don’t touch. Approach them scientifically.
Links are NSFW
Babblesex.com – Many of the members enjoy age play and more, scat is also another popular topic if you look in the right places.
BeastForum.com – These members, as it says in the url, enjoy Bestiality. Everything you need to know is here, even where to buy anatomically correct dildos.
Here’s a guy discussing bestiality going mainstream.
Incest is Best – On Literotica.com there are a few hard to find places to discuss taboo, this is one of them.
LoliconRus.com – Lolicon is a combination of Loli (from Lolita) and Con (from convention/gathering). A lolita is a sexually active/suggestive/precousous young girl. The origins of using the term lolita is from a depiction in the popular and controversial Vladimir Nabokov book, Lolita. No actual children are involved, nor are any actual children harmed.
I feel sexuality is fluid, it ebbs and flows from one thought to another; what you feel is disgusting one day, is exciting the next. There was a day that I said “I’d NEVER try anal EVER,” and now I find it exciting when I’m in the mood. Before I became sexually active I couldn’t firmly wrap my fingers around the concept of being choked during sex; now I don’t only have a firm grasp on it but so does mainstream culture. Personal limitations are made and crossed everyday. I picked a really extreme topic to discuss to help put into perspective how you feel about other lesser sexual acts that you have reservations about.
Where do you stand? What is taboo to you? What are your personal limits?
We’ve heard alot of “are we normal, is this normal, this happens when i do that- is it normal?” questions; so don’t be embarrassed to throw out your opinion or thoughts. Lets discuss. Suggest any topic you’d like to me to discuss in the future.
If you’re too shy to speak freely here, try me at SexpertJaneBlow on AIM.
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