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If I had a dollar every time someone asked me whats the big deal about Spanking, I’d easily have a few hundred bucks that I’d probably blow at (links NSFW for artistic nudity) www.stockroom.com or a website like it (hint hint, I really want a Hobble Belt in my collection, hint).
Spanking is like a jolt to the system, a complex wake up call on all levels.
First you desire it, you can’t spank yourself, so you are looking for it from someone else. Whether you look for it for punishment or pleasure, you still are satisfied after you get a spanking.
When you brace for impact you are consciously allowing it to happen, you are submitting, and it could be a humiliating humbling moment, or it could take you to a new level of consciousness.
Why you are being spanked can simply be something to do during sex to really slam home the idea of crazy sex; and someone taking the lead, embracing the sexiness of your skin and the shape of your ass. Some asses just, well, are beggin’ to be spanked… kneeling, thrust upwards, soft, supple… who can resist giving an ass like that a spank? I can’t.
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Could be you’re role playing and you’ve been a bad student, or any other worker/boss, Superior and underling scenario. I enjoy straight forward OTK spankings, there is just something so simple and hot being bent Over The Knees of someone else, trying to keep balanced, the blood rushing to your face and ass or thighs.
Some people spank because they need it, it pleases them to see how far they can push (a consenting) someone.
Then there is the impact itself, the physical hand meeting skin slapping feeling. The sting, the sound, the blood rushing to create the pink hand print, or maybe a bruise. The numbness, tingling, swollen feeling… and the pain. In all degrees, pain is exciting. It is the reaction to a direct stimuli. The difference between pain and pleasure is perception.
If you slap my face, ass, thighs or anywhere else for that matter during an every day conversation it is going to hurt, and I’ll likely slap you back for being a fucking jerk-off. But warm me up in a sexual scene, build the tension and then slap any of those places and I promise I’ll get wet… and I’ll ask you to do it again (please).
Tips:
A good way to start is to give a little spank when you think your partner is warming up for orgasm, just a little tap. Bring it up later and see how they respond. Tell them you couldn’t help yourself, you were in the moment and it was hot. You can say the same thing if you want to be spanked but don’t know how to bring it up. You never know what you can accomplish in the heat of the moment. Most people are “pleasers” and will likely do anything asked of them in the bedroom to get their partner off. Take a leap and try it, there really isn’t an easier way to bring it up. If it doesn’t work out, brush it off and try again a few fuck sessions later. After being persistent, you will both have to discuss it a little, keep an open mind and have fun.
People like spanking because of the control, the owning element, the humiliation, the sounds, the color, the dominance, the security, for punishment, to smile every time they try to sit, for pleasure!
Spanking is a gateway, it can open you up to other forms of impact play. Props are usually first after locating all the spots you enjoy being slapped. Floggers and Paddles and a few others are usually perfect for people who want more of a “thuddy” impact experience. The other side of the coin is the “stingy” impacts – like the ones you get from Rubber Bands, Whips, and Crops.
As always, have fun and keep it SSC!
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