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Nikki CoXXX Says: Sex Cures Writers Block

Have you ever walked passed someone and thought, “Wow I would love to fuck the shit out of you?” (If you said no, you are lying by the way). Anyway, the physical attraction might be enough to entice the idea, but once your hottie of choice opens his or her mouth, and nothing comes out, your vagina dries up/your penis runs for cover. Well, the same thing goes for writing. You can have so many ideas, but sometimes, after playing around with them for a while, you realize that they… well, suck.

Someone needs to get laid, or buy a vibrator…

It’s Monday, June 7, 2010. The time, 7:30 in the morning. I have been up since around 6, because every idea I had for an article last night got tossed to my bedroom floor after a page into brainstorming. Too tired to think, and too tired to masturbate… to help myself get into the mood to think about sex, I collapsed face down on my laptop.

As I sat around this morning, scrambling for last minute ideas, I took a second to reminisce about the days when I was writing the sex column for my college news paper. All of a sudden, the light bulb went off, and I thought to myself, well, there was that time when my ex-boyfriend literally banged a topic out of me.

It also got me thinking about an awesome slogan that should be printed across the walls of every doctor’s office, An Orgasm A Day Keeps The Doctor Away.

Anyway, let’s take a trip down memory lane, shall we?

A few nights before one of my deadlines for The Banner, (my college newspaper), I was going on and on about how I was having a hard time thinking about a topic for my next article. As my blood pressure began to soar, I was interrupted by Kris whispering sweet nothings into my ear. “My penis is hard.” I laughed. All it took was a simple glide of his hand over my skin to shut me up. I thought to myself, oh what the hell, if having sex doesn’t get me into the mood to write about it, I don’t know what will.

Along with my body, my mind was stripped of all its glory. In the heat of the moment, our bodies became one. I no longer cared about deadlines, or the fact that I gained six pounds since I started dating Kris.

A beam of sweat dripped off my forehead landing on my face, hitting me like a ton of bricks. “I got it!” I screamed out, disregarding the fact that I probably woke up the whole neighborhood. My mind went blank just like the Microsoft Word Document that I was staring at earlier in the evening. I, once again, saw nothing but a bright light. Yet, instead of blinding my vision, it guided my vivid imagination.

The following night, I found myself back at square one once again as I tried to reach the land of milk and honey and my 750 word minimum for my article. What happened to the girl who once oozed self-confidence? There was once a girl who was ambitious and spoke her mind without caring about what others thought about her. Well, now she felt like a slacker. A washed up Carrie Bradshaw… minus the expensive shoes.

It was now 12:48 p.m. on judgment day, a.k.a. print day. A cup of coffee and a bagel this morning turned into, oh, no one is home, let’s have a quickie.
Since I started this article two days prior, I had sex five times. Believe it or not, that’s the amount of times the average couple has sex IN A WEEK. As I got ready to run out the door, sex hair and all… I couldn’t help but to laugh to myself. I had writers block, writing about how sex cures writers block.

Kris and I might have broken up, but I like the slogan I should pitch for doctors offices around the world. I came up with one for myself. My right hand and vibrator will keep the writers block away.

10 comments
  • sick and tired

    stop writing about your life and ex, it's boring and pathetic to be stuck on a guy. if you want to blog use some live journal so the rest of society isn't stuck listening to your bitching. ALSO get over your weight, either get fat or go bulimic but shut the fuck up.

  • Nikki CoXXX

    Apparently you live under a rock if you have never experienced love, break ups, feeling fat… or whatever. I live my life as an open book, and I have no problem sharing my experiences with others because even if only ONE person can learn from my trial and tribulations, than my job has been done. And I'm stuck on my ex? We were together for 2 and a half years, so if you are too dumb to figure it out, let me just say that's when most of my sexual experiences happened. I'm sorry that I'm not a whore and I don't fuck random people for the sake of an article that you probably still bitch about. If you don't like what I have to say, fuck off. No one is putting a gun to your head to read my shit.

  • Johnny Thunderchode

    fuck the articles, these comment wars are what get me hard. ive been rubbing myself black the last few hours

  • anonymous loser

    sick and tired: it may be boring and pathetic to be stuck on a guy but it's even more boring and pathetic to obsess over a blogger. in one way or another, you go out of your way to comment on these posts. why is it that internet comment boards offer a forum for these scathing rants under anonymous names? because the people who write them are cowards who don't have the talent or dignity to issue a civil or meaningful response. don't worry though, i'm sure there's a nice job opening for you at gawker. these hate-filled comments are a detriment to human intellect because faceless losers are allowed to share every thought that stems from their boring and pathetic lives.

  • Nikki CoXXX

    Can I clear something up? I’m not stuck on my ex, the experiences we shared make for great topics… (and ive written about other guys I’ve dated). Bottom line is, shitty or great, I wouldn’t change a thing in my life, mine as well share it with anyone willing to read about it.

  • sick and tired

    A retort to Nikki's comment: I HAVE experienced love, break-ups and feeling fat; however, I am a WOMAN who can come to terms with those things, not bitch and moan about them. It's time to put on your big girl pants and grow the fuck up. And "Trials and Tribulations?" Seriously?! Give me a break?! What could possibly be sooo wrong in your life that makes it sooo horrible to have to suffer slings and arrows. Get over the dramatics and the histrionics. Also, I am curious as to how you are qualified to give sex and relationship advice when clearly, in your argument, you lack the experience and, by your constant reference to your past relationship, you have not moved on. How can you guide when you cannot even lead by example? And, just a suggestion, maybe you SHOULD broaden your experiences, that way your articles would be a bit more interesting to read. I am glad no one is holding a gun to my head because I would have told them to shoot me already over the melodrama!

    P.S.: If you want to use the English language, I suggest you do not butcher it…
    "Too tired to think, and to tired to masturbate…" should be "Too tired to think and too tired to masturbate…"
    Also, a BEAM of sweat? Sounds interesting and painful…next time, proofread…but, what do I know, I am dumb and live under a rock, right?

    Anonymous: I didn't know one comment was considered obsessed with a blogger. But what do I know. Apparently, I have no talent or dignity, but those in glass houses…you're here commenting, which means something, doesn't it?

    And again, Nikki, "Mine as well" ::sigh:: proofreading would do you well…

  • Nikki CoXXX

    apparently you are obsessed with this blog. Thanks for coming back again to comment. :)

  • Your ex guy

    Haha. Well, sick and tired is kinda right. You're always mentioning your ex. So not over him. Why give relationship advice?

  • http://twitter.com/SexpertJaneBlow @SexpertJaneBlow

    Riddle me this… would you rather a Dr. fresh out of school to do open heart surgery on you — or someone who has been a Dr. for over 10 years who, although, might have had a couple of deaths in their OR… has saved millions through clear victories AND learning from the failures?

    just sayin'

    you LIVE and LEARN people, and that is all Nikki is trying to say :)

  • Nikki CoXXX

    again, I talk from experience, and people can say I don't have a lot of it because I can count the number of guys I fucked on one hand… but you know what, 2 AND A HALF YEARS WITH THE SAME PERSON IS A LOT ABOUT EXPERIENCE. Kris and I broke up, and after some time of not communicating, we remain friends, and I have nothing but love and respect for him. I'm sorry that I can handle my life with a little bit of maturity and class.