SDS is a tool to prove a point, SDS is usually liked by Leather Bottoms to a degree, and I dislike SDS. It is often a mistake made by novice, but I am here to help!
SDS stands for “Same Damn Spot”.
Why is SDS bad?
Imagine being punched in the balls. Twice. In a row.
Ok, it isn’t THAT extreme… but you get the point.
How can you use SDS to your advantage?
When giving a spanking, or using other implements for Impact Play, try not to strike the same spot too often and not in a row. You must move around, use varying degrees of “thwap” power. You don’t want to cause unnecessary pain, you want to cause calculated pain. You want to make it last so you can warm and stimulate the entire ass. It is kind of like just playing with a person’s nipples when their entire body is there to caress.
If you’ve just learned a new technique, then power to you as well. It is difficult at times to come up with new fun ways to torture your partner. For you, you have many implements open to hone in on a certain spot. You can start with a cane, then hand, move up to a paddle, then use a stinging technique of a flogger and then use the flogger to thud the area over. It is like making a proper soup – you need to layer in the flavor to create depth and pleasure the palate.
Learn what your partner likes and dislikes. Don’t make the novice mistake of thinking a spanking means smacking the same spot over and over. Say “no” to SDS or use the technique properly and make me proud!
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