Posts about Anal
Posted by JaneBlow on 2/16/12 at 11:30 am
Dear Jane, <– Ask me a question, any question, and I’ll answer it! You’re totally anonymous, so don’t be shy.
Is it wrong for a straight guy wanting to experiment with anal stimualtion? And what would be the best way to do that?
Let me tell you a little story about one of your favorite Manly Men… Mr. James Bond. Actually, it is more of a statement… you see… despite all the women, Pussy Galore if you will… he was often considered Bisexual. Go ahead and google, I can wait for you to get past all the Daniel Craig stuff. Sure it is a more Euro idea than an American one, but think about it.
If more men took a 007 standpoint, we wouldn’t be discussing if it was “normal” for you to want to explore your own body. If James Bond, a famed man’s man can still be a man’s man while enjoying anal stimulation, so can you. There is nothing to be ashamed of. If you do it yourself, you’re exploring. If you do it with a woman, you enjoy the stimulation enough to share it with a partner. If you do it with another man, you might be queer. It depends on YOUR FEELINGS and who you’re attracted to, NOT what is being stimulated and that you enjoy the stimulation.
Common society will say it is “weird” but anyone educated even slightly in sexuality and sexual practices will shrug at you and say enjoy. They’d even tell you, like I’m going to, a few fun tips to get you started.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, male anal exploration, prostate, rimming
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Posted by Silo Johnson on 6/10/11 at 2:00 pm
You want what you can’t have, until you have it: ANAL
That’s right, most guys aren’t really into anal. It’s all about the thrill of the chase, the forbidden fruit, the greener grass, etc. The majority of straight males you encounter talk about how they desperately want to penetrate a girl’s asshole. “How can I get my girl to give up the ass?” The thing is, once they get it, they’ve accomplished their goal and they move on. Yes they’ve enjoyed it, it was tighter, it was dirtier, but they’re probably not that kinky to begin with and the appeal was the only attraction.
The ass: Not just a tighter vagina
The problem with this is, anal will most likely hurt a girl the first time. She’s scared, she’s tense, she tightens up, which in turn makes it harder to get your penis in, which makes the whole experience more challenging. So after this one uncomfortable encounter, the girl is left with a memory of a very unpleasant event. The sad thing is, if you had the interest to try it a few more times, the girl would relax and most likely LOVE IT. I said it, not like it, LOVE IT. Anal can be immensely enjoyable for the female and can also lead to earth shattering orgasms.
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Categories: Just Because
Tags: Anal, Anal Sex, bad sex advice, NBHNC, rim job, rimjob
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Posted by JaneBlow on 3/16/11 at 11:00 am
Dear Jane, <— You can ask me anything, I promise.
Semen, ejaculate, or come by any other name is all the same… just another bodily fluid.
If it is relatively safe to drink urine, lick your own blood if you get a little cut, eat boogers as a kid, lick pussy, swallow come, and kiss away tears… it is safe to come in a person’s ass. As long as you are also taking proper STD precautions.
Just remember, what goes in, comes out … and not everyone likes to deal with it (especially if you choose not to wear a condom). Warn your partner first at least, or have fun talking about it.
Have the baby-wipes handy, and if it [anal] hurts you’re doing it wrong!
Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, come, cum
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Posted by JaneBlow on 2/18/11 at 12:13 pm
“I’m sure every very guy ‘does’ look at that ass of yours,” Dana laughed. “Even I’m amazed by how trim and shapely your hips are after two kids. If I was a man…” Dana paused and then said, “Now I’m embarrassing myself,” and she suddenly looked away from the younger woman and blushed. If she told her the truth, sometimes she had a difficult time keeping her eyes off of the younger woman. Dana had never had a thing for women but if she did, Mary Ellen would be on the list.
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Categories: Erotica
Tags: Anal, neighbors
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Posted by JaneBlow on 12/1/10 at 11:21 am
Dear Jane, <— if you click this, it’ll take you to Formspring.me. You’ll be able to ask me whatever you want, and be totally anonymous. Do it, and do it often; please and thank you!
My boyfriend really wants to do anal, and really wants me to do it to him too. I’m willing to finger/use anal plug/peg, but i think he wants to do it to me first and i’m not exactly comfortable with that. What should i do?
Featured: The Nexus Glide
There a term in the BDSM lifestyle called “Old Guard”. It is when a true submissive spends time being a Dominant so that they can better understand submission and Power Exchange. In the long run, it makes them a better submissive and person in the end. Some people remain a Switch which is fine; it is a learning experience after all. This opportunity also rarely happens in its true form, the term also tends to be archaic. But, ya know what I think? Carpe diem.
If the occasion arises that you are able to turn the tables like that, do not say you wont try it please. I strongly suggest you try it (thrice).
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, BDSM, nexus glide, old guard, prostate
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Posted by JaneBlow on 8/20/10 at 1:04 pm
I don’t know about you, but when my parents told me not to do ________, it became even more tempting to do. This is how I think other people see A2M.
“Thank you” porno for introducing the masses to A2M, as in Ass to Mouth. Or ATOM, as in Ass to Other Mouth (when there is a third person around). This practice likely started as a raunchy fantasy where the anal receiver was just so ‘dirty’ they’d even suck on something that was IN their ass.
Porn has a way of making every raunchy fantasy come true. We didn’t stop at just simply watching people have sex. Soon there was a demand for interracial, and group sex, gangbangs, lesbians… anal… ass to mouth… forget condoms… and much more. Having “porn sex” is something people seek and brag about now-a-day.
Personally, I don’t know many (any?) people who would A2M, (please out yourself somehow, we need to chat!). It is a “dirty” practice, and precautions should be taken. I know in porno they do enemas and clean themselves before doing an anal scene to get rid of fecal matter. But, that doesn’t exactly wash away the other “risks”.
Without getting all “after school special” on you, here is a list of things that COULD potentially happen if you practice A2M:
<Insert Human Centipede Joke Here>
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Categories: Jane Says
Tags: a2m, Anal, ass to mouth, enema, human centipede, STD
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Posted by JaneBlow on 8/19/10 at 12:29 pm
Dear Jane,
How does a proper prostate massage work?
The prostate is located a few inches into a man’s ass, it is easily found if he is laying on his back or side, or heck… on his knees when you place a finger inside his has and curl it towards his belly button.
He should be fairly aroused and warmed up with plenty of foreplay and rubbing his ass to “tell the body” something is going to happen to it, just like you would for a woman’s ass. As the famous Tristan Taormino says “You can tell a lot from sticking your finger in someone’s ass,” and she is correct. You will know immediately if you should slow down, if they are nervous and a slew of other emotions.
Your asshole doesn’t lie.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, prostate, Tristan Taormino
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Posted by JaneBlow on 8/6/10 at 2:16 pm
A question on my formspring account got me thinking. I was going to write about something special you can do to your guy after sex that he’ll appreciate, but I’ve scratched that for now. (Sorry guys.)
The beautiful and talented MYVAG asked me:
Name 3 things you’d never do and why… sexual or nonsexual / not typically sexual etc…
Which I took to mean – Name 3 things in the sexual realm of sex or fetish that I’d never do.
The first few things that came to mind, are the usual “no scat, no vomit, no children, dead people etc…” the usual suspect line up of paraphilia - but that answer is boring. SO, I dug deeper and my brain started working. After I got over my “Never have I ever” flashbacks of college drinking games I came up with these:
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Categories: Jane Says
Tags: Anal, autoerotic asphyxiation, body modification, formspring, hard limits, never say never, thrice, tickle torture, trampling
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Posted by JaneBlow on 7/30/10 at 9:37 am
For female porn stars, masturbation and girl-on-girl scenes pay the least, while anal sex and double penetration scenes pay the most.
Source: @WTFSexFACTS
Photo: Sasha Grey and Clara G
If you thought porn stars got a flat rate per scene, you were wrong. This is a true FACT!
Categories: Fact
Tags: Anal, Fact, fap, wtfsexfacts
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Posted by JaneBlow on 7/28/10 at 12:47 pm
Dear Jane,
How do you like to have your asshole licked best? Some people are grossed out but I have found a majority of women melt under this technique. Also great foreplay for anal.
By George, this person has GOT IT!
Yes, analingus, rimming, tossing the salad, licking ass… is perfect foreplay, especially for anal sex. It helps people relax, it somewhat of an intimate taboo place to put your tongue and is a very hot spot on many people’s bodies. The poor sensitive ring of flesh is hidden tucked away by two spankable, biteable, grabbable globes and is just waiting to be touched; even if YOU think it is a “no no” spot.
Ass licking is definitely something to try thrice, I remember my first time being very…wet. Weird. My mind couldn’t quite let go into a pleasure zone so I pulled his head back up to my pussy and continued on. But he was persistent and very good at manipulating my body, ultimately he won me over.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, Analingus, Dear Jane, rimming
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