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Posted on Jun 11, 2010 by — Jane Says — Comments Off

Jane Says: 10 Ways to Have More Sex

It seems that not too many people out there are happy with the amount of sex they are having regardless of the fact that when they do get sex from their partners, the sex is reeeally good.  I could preach quality over quantity; but why NOT have good sex more often?

(clip is the sex montage from Good Luck Chuck; nsfw)


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Before you start a fight with your partner, try and figure out why you aren’t getting frequent flier bedroom miles anymore.

  • Are your libidos kicking in at different times of the day?  It is common that men are more up for sex in the morning, and women want sex more in the evening.
  • Has your sex style changed?  If you once gave them your all, and now you’re only half assing sex, of course your partner isn’t so quick to fuck you.
  • Has your sex NOT changed?  No one likes eating the same cereal every morning; meaning, maybe your sex is monotonous and boring.
  • Could you have done something your partner finds unattractive, or did you make them angry?
  • Ever think you are insatiable?
  • If I had the answer to why (typically) women stop being crazy and fun in bed after marriage, I’d be a very rich woman.  Some people use sex to lure a partner in and stop using their bodies once they have what they want.  Others lose the “umph” after children because they don’t see themselves as sexual beings anymore; just baby producers.
  • There are also people who feel “how could you find me attractive?” and shut out their partners from sex.

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Posted on Apr 30, 2010 by — Jane Says — 3 comments

Jane Says: Sex Goals Should Be Like a Road Trip!

Setting goals is a healthy practice in our everyday life when we want to overcome an obstacle, get things done and feel accomplished.

When you set reasonable goals and work towards the finished results; the end result becomes the main focus. This creates enough motivation to get the task done.  Usually the end justify the means.  Dangling the proverbial carrot to win the race.  We do this a lot.  Diets for bathing suit season, or to fit into a wedding dress.  Squirrel away part of our paycheck and cut back on little expenses to save up for concert tickets are good examples of this behavior.

We become goal oriented, totally obsessed with obtaining the almighty IT!

G  O O O O O O O O O O O A A A A A A A A A L ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

In my experience, setting goals in the bedroom could hinder more than help.  Goals concerning sex should more so mirror how we view a Road Trip.

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Posted on Jul 23, 2009 by — How To, Jane Says — 5 comments

Building The Ultimate Sex Cheat Sheet!

We always encourage people to ask questions about sex and their relationships with their partners and friends.  It helps eliminate Bedroom Dysfunction and misconceptions about sex.  Actually, on the grand scheme of things, you should question everything (including authority).

When I was younger I’d ask all of my friends questions about their sexual life because I was curious to see if I was “the only one” who thought certain things … and to collect free porn sites.  When I started, all we had was masturbation and being felt up though.  I’d call it ‘A Senseless Survey’, and my friends would look forward to them because they were able to find out of they weren’t “the only one” either.  I would privately collect the info, and put my friend’s answers in a paragraph and email it back to everyone. No names, no personal info.  As I got older I became something of a sexual  Dear. Abby.  My ‘Senseless Surveys’ gave that same anticipated feeling as hearing the ice cream man from up the block did.  I became my friends’ very own Pavlov.  My friends told me they called my survey’s “The Ultimate Sex Cheat Sheets” and  told me to write a book one day out of all of the info compiled.  One day… one day.

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