Hello there, from time to time we get fan mail here at Sexpert Jane Blow. This time my box got stuffed with this piece of erotica. In lieu of our writing today, here is a piece from a guy who seems to have a crush on our staff. I am flattered, and maybe a little wet between the thighs after reading this Beware it is a little… long. ;-)
Categories: Erotica, Guest Posts
Tags: blindfold, Blow Job, restraints, sex at work
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As one of the top five pervertables, Ice is a classic… and very weather appropriate right now. But what to do with it after you’ve snuck it into the room via a little bowl or a glass of chilly ice water?
1. You can apply the ice directly to erogenous zones, for people who love intense sex, ice is a really simple tool for you.
2. But most feel ice is way way to cold when applied directly to someone’s hot hot body, instead suck on a cube instead and apply your cold lips to lips, neck, breasts, abs, thighs.
3. Allow the ice to drip onto the body, the anticipation could drive a person nuts (combine this trick with the proper candle wax and your partner will s q u i r m for you). Hot, cold, hot, cold… throw a feather in the mix, and maybe something slappy like a little paddle, some handcuffs… and you’ve got yourself a great night.
4. Don’t forget the blindfold. It helps keep the cold kisses and foreplay a surprise, plus watching you reload your mouth with ice isn’t so cute. The blindfold with further the “oooo, whats next?!” in your captive’s brain (groin?).
5. Speaking of groins, when you do finally get there you have two options…
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Categories: Pervertable
Tags: blindfold, glass toy, Ice, Pervertable
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If you’re trying to add some spice to your relationship, it is a good thing as long as you take little steps. Many people go to adult shops with the idea of bringing home something exciting but get overwhelmed by how much “stuff” is available. But I can help you, so that when you go back home there isn’t a case of the blind leading the blind!
For first time buyers and tryers I always recommend a lotion that does something special such as warm, or tingle. A little bottle of lube isn’t going to scare someone away and is a great first step.
If they already tried a lotion, I’ll ask if they have any toys, if no, we start with the basics. A vibrating egg, or bullet toy works wonders. You can hold it in your hand for a massage, or against your cheek/lips for added pleasure during oral sex, they can be used for mutual masturbation and can be held against the clit for more stimulation during sex. They are a must for anyone to own.
I ask “yes, no” questions so it is easier for a new client to communicate with me without getting embarrassed. This usually warms them up to the shop, me and they are able to ask more personal direct questions. My goal is their happiness, not making a sale.
My third suggestion is always…
Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: anal t, beginner, blindfold, intensify your sex, surprising your partner
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