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Dear Jane: I Want to Sleep With My Best Friend’s Boyfriend

Posted by on 6/8/11 at 11:00 am

Dear Jane, <– This is an anonymous link, you can ask me anything and I’ll do my best to answer!

I’m in lust with one of my best friend’s boyfriend; I have a sneaking suspicion he wants inside of me. IF I were a terrible friend and wanted to sleep with him, how would I go about inquiring if he and I are on the same page?

Well, sounds like you’re asking permission to do something you are going to do anyway, so I’m going to approach this like this:

First

I’d examine your friendship and figure out if it is all worth it first.  Think about WHY you want to sleep with him.

Is your boyfriend being a dick lately so sleeping with someone who treats their girlfriend “the right way” will make you feel like you are sticking it to your guy?

Are you single, and um, it has been a while? You like him, trust him, and your BFF constantly says he is a good lay?

You liked him before your BFF started dating him so you’re stuck with “Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda” feelings?

Do you even consider her an actual best friend, did she slight you?

Hell, you could just like the thought that he might want to see you naked.

Would you follow through if he said yes, or are you looking for a justification for if you’ve “still got it” ?

Maybe you like the drama, the scandal.  There is no rush like doing something you’re not supposed to.  Sort of like defying gravity and jumping out of a plane.

I don’t know, I don’t know you or your friend’s situation; But I do know you should probably think about all that first before you jinx yourself and lose your friend crew.

But, like you said, IF you were a terrible friend… it should probably go down like this…

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Dear Jane: My Partner Doesn’t like Anal Sex / Oral Sex… But I Love it.

Posted by on 6/30/10 at 9:58 am

Dear Jane,

I started dating a girl who said ‘Nothing in the butt, ever.  It’s gross.’  How can I change her mind/trick her?

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I love eating pussy.  But my girlfriend said ‘no’.  Summat about a bad experience with another guy and she doesn’t wanna talk about it.  Any idea why she’s being such a bitch?

Are very related, you are basically asking for something you partner is set against for their own personal reasons, and both can be had with time and patience on your side.

Anal sex is mind over matter, she feels it is gross.  Some people NEVER get over this mindset, others get curious enough to give it a try.  You need to hope she is the later of the two.  Oral sex could be the same way, in fact, many sexual acts are the same way.  Without a “want” to do something, people create reasons NOT to do something.  It is the classic trying to get kids to eat their vegetables situation.

With bad experiences, and dead set against mindsets you need to create a positive association to trick their brains (what, did you think I was going to say “roofie them”?).

How?  Be hungry for your partner, have sex with them like if you don’t, you’ll die.  Hold them to you, grab their ass while you’re fucking their brains out.  Kiss them like they’ve never been kissed before… and when their eyes are rolling back in their heads, their hair is a mess, and you think they’ll agree to do just about anything… let your hands stray to your desired area of conquest.  If you know your partner’s body like you should, and made them cum hard a few times, you’ll be surprised what they’ll let you get away with.

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FACT! You Think it is OK to Cheat

Posted by on 6/11/10 at 8:51 am

The majority of people asked (62%) think there is nothing wrong with affairs.  Furthermore 1 in 3 have had an extramarital affair.

Source: Kinsey Institute

PS. Did you hear about the woman busted for Adultery in NY?

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Nikki CoXXX Says: Emotional Affairs… They might not give you dieases, but they will sure as hell send you crawling to a therapist.

Posted by on 5/10/10 at 4:02 pm

No one will ever send you the memo about a relationship being a full time job. When you first meet someone that you don’t have the urge to strangle within five minutes into a conversation, you consider them to be the coffee bitch intern. As time progresses, and things get more serious, a promotion is expected. Before you know it, it’s been 2 and a half years, and you’ve become… “that couple.” The couple that is emotionally disconnected, and on the verge of flat-lining.

My phone vibrates and wakes me. It’s 2:15 in the morning. I laid there for a few seconds, restless and aggravated. I just hung up on my drunk boyfriend who was slurring his way through an argument. I grabbed my phone, ready for round two of this screaming match. But there was no screaming. There was no drunk boyfriend. It was Greg, my “substitute boyfriend.”

I was never a fan of cheating. But, when the guy you are having an emotional affair with calls you in the middle of the night, drunk, promising you that if you pick him up from the ferry he will, “return the favor”… it’s hard to just hang up the phone with the hopes that you will wake up from this horrible nightmare.

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Attending a Nina Hartley Workshop !!

Posted by on 8/13/09 at 12:16 pm

I was sitting at work one day, putting prices on dildos and ordering movies when the phone rang (as it does).  I knew who it was just by looking at the number; it was my favorite movie distributor Tracy Sales.  She calls me special for new releases, most of her other customers get a lousy email, needles to say Jane Blow is loved.  We do the special orders

“Yes, sure I’ll take 4 copies of Big White Asses #7, but not the Jules Jordan Semen Sippers #19.”  I like doing orders when clients are around, the funny looks are the best.  Tracy also tells me about all the porn stars coming through.  She has ties with Alexis Texas, Belladonna and Jesse Jane to name a few.  Usually my bosses wave off the store signing because we don’t have enough time to advertise and I don’t usually go because I’m working.  This time around she had a special treat for me.

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