My husband has recently said he likes being talked dirty to while having sex. He said I used to but I don’t any more, I do not remember. Anyway, I get so lost in cuming I forget to talk. What do I say?
This is so common!
You probably don’t remember because you weren’t saying too much to him, but he still liked it. You were just saying small word cues of encouragement that his ego ate up, and asked for seconds.
Most people don’t say too much honestly, even in porno. The pros just repeat the same things over and over; when you couple that with hot sex, and how urgent you sound when you’re close to orgasm, the aural attention he is getting is more than enough for him to get off on.
There is only one other tip from porno you can take, and it isn’t talk in an annoying voice, or change yours so much you sound like a baby. Faking it like some of them do isn’t great either, so I can’t tell you to watch it for tips. In the last porno my coworkers had on in the store, one person actually said:
“Suck it like I bought you fucking dinner”.
Pam and Tommy tried to revisit, but even they couldn’t handle it.
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