Posts about fetish

Sexlopedia: Katoptronophilia

I was trolling twitter (as I do daily), and one of my twitter friends, @Vukizzle mentioned a term, or part of a term in a tweet.  I figured, if she didn’t know what it was called, and I didn’t know what it meant, that some of you might not know what it is either…

Here is the tweet that inspired my research…

“RT @CandyAppleAlly @Vukizzle a kapto-wha? — basically it means I like to fuck in front of mirrors :)”



After a little work on the internet here is the definition:

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Dear Jane: Where Do I Get Pony Play Gear?

Dear Jane, <— Ask me a question, as you can see, anything goes!

My girlfriend wants a pony–me! However, we can’t seem to find any places online that is a good store for pony play gear. Do you have any suggestions?

There are a few places I can send you to that I know of and some tips on how to get the effects and stick to a budget.  Unfortunately _______ play fetishists need deep pockets depending on how real they want to get.  Doesn’t matter which, but the bigger the animal and the more real you want to get, the more money it is going to cost.

BUT the gear is beautiful, and crafted well, and really helps you both get into the head space required to have a good time with it.  You’ll feel more proud as a pony in good gear too.

I’m not a pony player, but I did a pony girl photo set once (and I’m a gear slut – the more, the better) and there was SO MUCH gear involved. I had a really great time! /memories.

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Sexlopedia: Formicophilia and Entomophillia

Formicophilia is the fetish for having small insects crawl on your genitals.

No we aren’t talking about the gift that keeps on giving – aka – the STI: Crabs…..this is the real deal people!

Those who possess this condition have been known to enjoy ants crawling over their genitals and even entering the orifices until sexual arousal and climax is reached. Entomophillia is the wider term for those who find sexual pleasure with a range of various insects rather than ants alone.

Characteristics of this fetish include but are not limited to the following:

  • Sexual gratification from having small animals crawl on parts of the body
  • Sexual interest in ants or insects
  • Recurring intense sexual fantasies involving ants or insects
  • Sexual arousal involving ants or insects
  • To help discern between philias and fetishes read up on Jane’s Post:

    Sexlopedia: Paraphilia vs Fetish

    Do You Want To Be FUCKED?

    OK, now that I’ve got your attention, I’d like to introduce you to Topco’s newly unveiled surprise at the ANME Founders Show.

    I wasn’t able to go, but I’ve been seeing all kinds of teasers on twitter and talking with my company contacts as well as my like minded peers in the blogging and reviewing industry… and found out all KINDS of new info to share with you all.

    Sure, there are new toys coming out of every line possible… Doc Johnson, Jimmy Jane and NassToys NOT excluded… but it seems Topco has stolen the spotlight this year with their Side Show tent and their display of FUCKED toys.

    Inside the creepy circus tent, in the brightly lit room, held secrets only whispered about before the ANME doors opened.  Where toys meet fetish, meets paraphilia, FUCKED shines.

    You remember what paraphilia means right? We went over this… “a condition wherein a person’s sexual arousal and gratification depend upon fantasizing about and engaging in, sexual behavior that is atypical and at times, controversial.”

    If you have the desire to have sex with a woman while she was on her period — If you have the desire to have sex with someone with an STD — A Hermaphrodite —  Or are into Coprophilia

    STEP RIGHT UP !!… enter the tent.

    NSFW pics of the new FUCKED sex toys.

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    Jane Says: Surprising Your Partner is Good Pt3

    We’ve covered igniting the spark again and why it could have gone out, and bringing home toys for beginners; part three is about introducing your partner to your kinky side.

    You’re over the Anal sex hump, you both orally please one another, you have a fun sex life… but you’ve been hiding your foot fetish, or your want to be spanked, or love for puppy play, or to be choked, or to be tied down with in all kinds of rope and bondage gear.

    How do you ask your partner to pee on you? Or tell them that you don’t want to be able to sit after you’ve been over their knee?

    How do you introduce something kinky to your partner?

    Truth is, there is no easy way.  I’ve previously told you how/when to bring up a topic… but what can you say? I can think of two ideas to help you. 

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    Sexlopedia: Retifism

    A word ending in “ism” in the sexlopedia will usually be associated with a fetish, it will pertain to a “belief”.  A word ending in “phile or philiac” pertains to the person who has love/obsession or attraction to something (ending in “philia” is the obsession itself).

    Retifism is the love for shoes.  A retifialic is a person who LOVES shoes, is obsessed with shoes, who is so attracted to shoes – they can get the person off.  I’m not talking about your above average woman with a closet full of shoes because she likes them.  I’m talking about the people who masturbate with shoes, the mere idea of touching a shoe sends a sexual shock-wave to their genitals.

    Not feet, not boots, not toes… but the shoe itself.  Heels and sneakers are included.

    Retif- the root of the word, originates with Nicholas-Edme Rétif a French novelist who was an enemy of the Marquis de Sade.  He wrote a story in which the narrator steals shoes from his employer’s wife and kisses one shoe while he ejaculates into the other.

    Sexlopedia: Paraphilia vs Fetish

    Paraphilia is a condition involving sex fetishes where a person’s sexual arousal and gratification depend on fantasizing about, and engaging in, sexual behavior that is atypical and extreme.

    Sexual Fetishism is the sexual arousal that a person receives from an object.   Fetishes could be seen as a disorder of sexual preference or as an enhancing element to a relationship causing a better sexual bond between the partners.  This can range from dangerous fetishes like Auto-Erotic Asphyxiation to the love of Teddy Bears aka Ursusagalmatophilia.

    See that there now?  Not quite?  Maybe the following examples will help.

    This time around, you get two for the price of one!  Sometimes it is difficult to define a term without standing on another first…

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    Spotlite: Ellie Idol

    Ellie Idol, she sure as hell isn’t Billy Idol but I’m pretty sure you’ll prefer her any day to his rebel yell.

    Why I <3 her, and some small teaser pics are NSFW after the cut.

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    A BDSM & SSC Primer

    We’ve received some mail and questions asking about the Kinkier side of sex and questions about BDSM; here is an introduction.  Much of the following is fact, a few points are my opinion from direct experience.  We welcome all questions and debate.

    BDSM is short for Bondage, Dominance and Sadomasochism.  Some also feel s/M stands for submissive or slave and Master. Others feel “S” also stands for Switch.


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