Dear Jane,
My partner really likes their hair pulled, and I think I’m good at it. Are there other ways? Better ways? I usually just tug on their hair, nothing special. They tell me to do it harder though, is that a good or bad thing?
oOOooh hair pulling, one of my favorites!
If your partner has long hair, you could tug from the length of their hair by making your own “Pony Tail”, or grabbing their already done pony tail. It is the quick way to make yourself some “reigns” and tug their head around or give them a little pain with pleasure.
I’ve found it is better to get your hands in there though, deep into their hair from the scalp.
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