My girlfriend and I have been doing sexual things and it’s looking like I can’t cum by handjobs or blowjobs. She also has a small mouth. Help, wat do?
I’ve been told I have a small mouth. I’ve also been told by a partner or two that they’ve never “cum” by hand jobs or blow jobs… I’ve also had my BJ Workshops running long enough to give mucho advice… and they’ve all finished for me.
Except the hand jobs… I can only give you the tools to get that job done… I personally think “meh” of them. I don’t blame you for not being able to get off while someone else gave you a HJ; you’ve been doing it for so long on your own. No one loves you, like you do.
You could try using a lotion like Stroke 29 (not recommended for oral sex) to help her glide and grip you better, or use strokers. Unless you’re in LOVE with hand-hand jobs.



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