Posts about prostate
Posted by JaneBlow on 2/16/12 at 11:30 am
Dear Jane, <– Ask me a question, any question, and I’ll answer it! You’re totally anonymous, so don’t be shy.
Is it wrong for a straight guy wanting to experiment with anal stimualtion? And what would be the best way to do that?
Let me tell you a little story about one of your favorite Manly Men… Mr. James Bond. Actually, it is more of a statement… you see… despite all the women, Pussy Galore if you will… he was often considered Bisexual. Go ahead and google, I can wait for you to get past all the Daniel Craig stuff. Sure it is a more Euro idea than an American one, but think about it.
If more men took a 007 standpoint, we wouldn’t be discussing if it was “normal” for you to want to explore your own body. If James Bond, a famed man’s man can still be a man’s man while enjoying anal stimulation, so can you. There is nothing to be ashamed of. If you do it yourself, you’re exploring. If you do it with a woman, you enjoy the stimulation enough to share it with a partner. If you do it with another man, you might be queer. It depends on YOUR FEELINGS and who you’re attracted to, NOT what is being stimulated and that you enjoy the stimulation.
Common society will say it is “weird” but anyone educated even slightly in sexuality and sexual practices will shrug at you and say enjoy. They’d even tell you, like I’m going to, a few fun tips to get you started.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, male anal exploration, prostate, rimming
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Posted by JaneBlow on 5/4/11 at 11:03 am
Flexi Felix by Fun Factory
Anal beads are a good toy for creating a new sensation. Many anal beginners use butt plugs or fingers or other anal safe toys to prep the body for a larger insertion; sometimes a bigger plug for that ‘full’ feeling. Anal beads are inserted one by one with lubricant and then pulled out to create a “popping” sensation.
They can be pulled out as slow as you’d like, but never pull them out very fast.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: anal beads, Anal Sex, prostate
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Posted by JaneBlow on 12/1/10 at 11:21 am
Dear Jane, <— if you click this, it’ll take you to Formspring.me. You’ll be able to ask me whatever you want, and be totally anonymous. Do it, and do it often; please and thank you!
My boyfriend really wants to do anal, and really wants me to do it to him too. I’m willing to finger/use anal plug/peg, but i think he wants to do it to me first and i’m not exactly comfortable with that. What should i do?
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There a term in the BDSM lifestyle called “Old Guard”. It is when a true submissive spends time being a Dominant so that they can better understand submission and Power Exchange. In the long run, it makes them a better submissive and person in the end. Some people remain a Switch which is fine; it is a learning experience after all. This opportunity also rarely happens in its true form, the term also tends to be archaic. But, ya know what I think? Carpe diem.
If the occasion arises that you are able to turn the tables like that, do not say you wont try it please. I strongly suggest you try it (thrice).
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, BDSM, nexus glide, old guard, prostate
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Posted by JaneBlow on 8/19/10 at 12:29 pm
Dear Jane,
How does a proper prostate massage work?
The prostate is located a few inches into a man’s ass, it is easily found if he is laying on his back or side, or heck… on his knees when you place a finger inside his has and curl it towards his belly button.
He should be fairly aroused and warmed up with plenty of foreplay and rubbing his ass to “tell the body” something is going to happen to it, just like you would for a woman’s ass. As the famous Tristan Taormino says “You can tell a lot from sticking your finger in someone’s ass,” and she is correct. You will know immediately if you should slow down, if they are nervous and a slew of other emotions.
Your asshole doesn’t lie.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: Anal, prostate, Tristan Taormino
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Posted by JaneBlow on 2/19/10 at 9:51 am
As some of you know, I have a formspring.me account now, and I must tell you, it has been pretty cool for me. Last week I got a good question. It is commonly asked, a simple mix up and easily answered. At work, I probably answer this question a few times a month. Before you think “is my questions relevant, important or stupid” … ask it anyway. If you have or a friend has wondered, so has someone else.
Q: If a girl can orgasm from anal does that mean there’s a “g-spot” there?
A: First a little anatomy briefing. If we’re all the same during development in the womb then where did all the penis go while the vulva formed? Simple… all of that sensitive erectile tissue created the clit, the vagina, labia majora/minora, and even the taint and around the anal opening – so 1 reason it feels good – is because it just does. Also, the anal rings/sphincters are REALLY packed with nerve endings, so its really intense for anyone on the receiving end.
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Categories: Dear Jane
Tags: anal ease, Anal Sex, Anterior Fornix, formspring.me, G-SPot, GSpot, Is there an anal G-Spot?, prostate
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Posted by JaneBlow on 1/7/10 at 11:17 am
Today we’re going to discuss Balls… the boys, twins, nads, testes, testicles, scrotum, sack, bollocks, yarbles, gonads, nuts, huevos, cajones, the other half to a guy’s collective Junk! …etc.
Not saying “man, you’ve got BALLS if you’re going to do/say <insert crazy thing here>”
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Categories: How To, Jane Says, Workshops
Tags: androgen, ball wash, balls, balls of steel, best oral ever, bollocks, cajones, gonads, homologbus, jane blow workshop, man junk, nads, nuts, prostate, rosie palm and her five sisters, sack, scrotum, Sex, taint, testes, testicles, testosterone, the boys, the seamstress, the sherlock, the twins, truck balls, uevos, windshield wiper, yarbles
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Posted by JaneBlow on 10/22/09 at 12:20 pm
Warning: this might be a little longer than usual, but there is just SO MUCH to say about this product and I’d be doing you a disservice if I skimped on anything!!! Also, if you can’t look at pocket pussies at work, this post is NSFW.
If you remember, I promised to help you guys build an arsenal. I mentioned The Fleshlight in that linked post, but I hadn’t had my hands on one till recently! Now I have a whole bunch!
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Categories: Reviews, Reviews, Toys
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Posted by JaneBlow on 9/3/09 at 11:04 am
Melanie Griffith and Ed Harris were in a cute 1994 film about three boys trying to venture into manhood and find the one spot you can touch on a woman to drive her crazy. After watching scrabbled porn, and thinking flash light orbs on their tree clubhouse looked like boobies…they saved their change, their “Milk Money“, ventured into the city (on bicycle). This quest led them to meet a prostitute, save some local wet lands, and find out that the one spot you could touch on a woman that would drive her crazy… was her heart.
If you haven’t seen the movie, I’m sorry for the spoiler but it is a cute movie to just watch.
Why did I start with that?
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Categories: How To, Workshops
Tags: AFE-Spot, Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone, Clioris, Clit, Cytheria, Deep Dicking, Ed Harris, Erectile Tissue, Flower Tucci, G-SPot, Graffenburg Spot, I Prick U, long dicking, Melanie Griffith, Milk Money, orgasm, prostate, Pussy, Skene's Gland, Squirt, Squirting, U-Spot, Urethral Sponge, vagina
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Posted by JaneBlow on 8/20/09 at 12:30 pm
Did you know that on average a male orgasm lasts for 7 seconds?
A woman’s orgasm lasts about triple that on average, 24 seconds to be a little bit more precise.
Sort of adds insult to injury if it happens to have been a while, and you don’t last so long with the girl you notch your bedpost with one night. Or you go for hours, she gets off 100x, the bed is soaked and *pop* just like that, you’re done. Its like you actually licked a Blow Pop to get to the bubble gum center and there is only a speck of gum.
That sucks.
There is so much pressure on you guys (pun intended) to preform, and know how to please a girl. Some women even expect you to be mind readers and just KNOW their hot spots without any clues from them. Well, fuck that. This post isn’t about them, it is about you. If women have a 6 barrel mini gun (like the one in terminator) and you have a Glock 9mm (like cops use) , you’re going to find out how to upgrade to a Desert Eagle .50 Caliber (like the NON replica used in the movie Snatch).
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