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Anal beads are a good toy for creating a new sensation. Many anal beginners use butt plugs or fingers or other anal safe toys to prep the body for a larger insertion; sometimes a bigger plug for that ‘full’ feeling. Anal beads are inserted one by one with lubricant and then pulled out to create a “popping” sensation.
They can be pulled out as slow as you’d like, but never pull them out very fast.
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Dear Jane, <— if you click this, it’ll take you to Formspring.me. You’ll be able to ask me whatever you want, and be totally anonymous. Do it, and do it often; please and thank you!
My boyfriend really wants to do anal, and really wants me to do it to him too. I’m willing to finger/use anal plug/peg, but i think he wants to do it to me first and i’m not exactly comfortable with that. What should i do?
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There a term in the BDSM lifestyle called “Old Guard”. It is when a true submissive spends time being a Dominant so that they can better understand submission and Power Exchange. In the long run, it makes them a better submissive and person in the end. Some people remain a Switch which is fine; it is a learning experience after all. This opportunity also rarely happens in its true form, the term also tends to be archaic. But, ya know what I think? Carpe diem.
If the occasion arises that you are able to turn the tables like that, do not say you wont try it please. I strongly suggest you try it (thrice).
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How does a proper prostate massage work?
The prostate is located a few inches into a man’s ass, it is easily found if he is laying on his back or side, or heck… on his knees when you place a finger inside his has and curl it towards his belly button.
He should be fairly aroused and warmed up with plenty of foreplay and rubbing his ass to “tell the body” something is going to happen to it, just like you would for a woman’s ass. As the famous Tristan Taormino says “You can tell a lot from sticking your finger in someone’s ass,” and she is correct. You will know immediately if you should slow down, if they are nervous and a slew of other emotions.
Your asshole doesn’t lie.
As some of you know, I have a formspring.me account now, and I must tell you, it has been pretty cool for me. Last week I got a good question. It is commonly asked, a simple mix up and easily answered. At work, I probably answer this question a few times a month. Before you think “is my questions relevant, important or stupid” … ask it anyway. If you have or a friend has wondered, so has someone else.
Q: If a girl can orgasm from anal does that mean there’s a “g-spot” there?
A: First a little anatomy briefing. If we’re all the same during development in the womb then where did all the penis go while the vulva formed? Simple… all of that sensitive erectile tissue created the clit, the vagina, labia majora/minora, and even the taint and around the anal opening – so 1 reason it feels good – is because it just does. Also, the anal rings/sphincters are REALLY packed with nerve endings, so its really intense for anyone on the receiving end.
Comments OffWarning: this might be a little longer than usual, but there is just SO MUCH to say about this product and I’d be doing you a disservice if I skimped on anything!!! Also, if you can’t look at pocket pussies at work, this post is NSFW.
If you remember, I promised to help you guys build an arsenal. I mentioned The Fleshlight in that linked post, but I hadn’t had my hands on one till recently! Now I have a whole bunch!
4 commentsMelanie Griffith and Ed Harris were in a cute 1994 film about three boys trying to venture into manhood and find the one spot you can touch on a woman to drive her crazy. After watching scrabbled porn, and thinking flash light orbs on their tree clubhouse looked like boobies…they saved their change, their “Milk Money“, ventured into the city (on bicycle). This quest led them to meet a prostitute, save some local wet lands, and find out that the one spot you could touch on a woman that would drive her crazy… was her heart.
If you haven’t seen the movie, I’m sorry for the spoiler but it is a cute movie to just watch.
Why did I start with that?
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