This weeks word is a bit of an anatomy lesson, but hey at least you know what and where it is!
The Gooch:(noun) [gu-ch] Also know as “The Grundle” and more scientifically The Perineum. The area of skin found on a male which can be found between the balls and anus.
Now that you have the definition you can know why this info is useful! The penis is really longer than you think! Seriously, it is! It isn’t just that fun part we see on the outside but its also deep inside as well. The erectile tissue actually goes back towards his anus. When a man gets hard that whole thing gets hard! You haven’t noticed, because you didn’t know what to feel for.
This is where it can get fun, the gooch is just as nerve packed as the rest of the shaft; possibly even more so because right behind it is the guy’s prostate. While giving a blow job what you can do to give a little more stimulation is take your knuckle and rub up against it. You have more control in that area with a knuckle instead of a finger. Now be aware not to go too far, some men might perceive it as you going to shove a finger in his bum. That is another issue in itself- but if he is uncomfortable with you being that close to his asshole then let him know you aren’t interested in getting to the fudge factory and stick to the massage. Keep giving things a try!
Happy rubbing loves!
<3Barbie
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