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Posted on Sep 01, 2010 by — Dear Jane — Comments Off

Dear Jane: Where Are The Single Women Who Enjoy Threesomes & What Positions Are Good For Threesome Sex?

Dear Jane,

These two were sent to me via facebook wall post after a discussion about my new KinkLab inventory turned into a double teaming incident. I love my life.

I’d really like to know
1) How do you go about meeting single women who are into it? I know they have bars/clubs geared towards swingers but I have no idea how to find those or which ones are good.

2) New and interesting positions/acts that all 3 can participate in other than the normal girl going down on girl while guy has sex with 1 (which is hot but I’d like a broader horizon of things to do lol)

1.  As far as meeting people it is location, location, location.  If swinger bars and clubs aren’t quite your thing, try gay bars and lesbian/bisexual nights.  Try going to GLBT friendly events.  Or even places YOU would hang out at this way you can find someone with similar interests too.  Then talk to people, talk to everyone, especially the women you are interested in.  See where it takes you.  Try complimenting them, and swing the conversation as the night progresses to sex, fantasies, then maybe group sex if you want to take a direct approach.  If not, become friends with this person but keep them at arm’s distance because you don’t want to fall into the “friend zone”.

As far as finding a good place to go where there are swingers, try websites that have rating systems for clubs and kink friendly events. Fetlife.com could help, Yelp.com could help and Craigslist.com could help if you ask to know where to go instead of hook up with someone.

2.  As for new and interesting positions…

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Posted on Jul 21, 2010 by — Twister — Comments Off

Want to Play Twister?: Teaspoons

Teaspoons or The Hot Seat is a rear entry position and variation of a doggy style except you are both kneeling instead of someone being on their hands and knees.

This position feels fantastic because of the angle of your hips, unlike regular doggy style where it is all about depth.  Teaspoons is also a good position for anal sex.  I like this one because you can intertwine your arms and grope one another.  The person being the “big spoon”, can even reach around and stimulate your clit/cock with their hands or a vibe.

If you are into rougher sex, this is a good hair pulling, breath play -your partner is holding onto you and has a lot of control- position.  You feel off balance, and in the end is a great work out too.

For a variation, if you are getting tired or to make it more of a submission move the “little spoon” can lean the upper half of their torso against a wall.  A little pressure on their shoulder or head can really bring someone into a submissive head space.

If the big spoon leans back a little you can admire the little spoon’s arched back and ass- which is also sexy, and changes the angle of penetration.  You can switch into doggy style or a few other rear entry positions from this one too; I highly suggest putting it in your Twister game.

For an animated version of this position —>

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