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Posted on Dec 28, 2010 by — BDSM, Sexlopedia — 1 comment

Sexlopedia: Leather Bottom

I don’t know how popular this term is.  I’ll mention it in BDSM circles and I’ll get a funny look from both the younger and the older crowd.  The term is pretty self explaintory, so people who haven’t heard it get the meaning quickly especially in the context.  I am 100% sure I didn’t make up the term, and I don’t think it is a “Vermont thing” BUT it is a term related to Impact Play… spankings, floggings, etc.  Usually the older crowd, if they aren’t novices, get it immediately.  Maybe it is archaic like Old Guard is? Who knows. I don’t.

Ass pic borrowed from www.MyBigJunk.com – No asses were hurt in the writing of this post (unfortunately).

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Posted on Dec 28, 2010 by — BDSM, Sexlopedia — 1 comment

Sexlopedia: SDS

SDS is a tool to prove a point, SDS is usually liked by Leather Bottoms to a degree, and I dislike SDS.  It is often a mistake made by novice, but I am here to help!

SDS stands for “Same Damn Spot”.

Why is SDS bad?

Imagine being punched in the balls. Twice. In a row.

Ok, it isn’t THAT extreme… but you get the point.

How can you use SDS to your advantage?

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Posted on Sep 10, 2010 by — BDSM, Dear Jane — 3 comments

Jane Says: Spanking, Explained.

Extra points to the person who can tell me where this pic is from, NO CHEATING! lol

If I had a dollar every time someone asked me whats the big deal about Spanking, I’d easily have a few hundred bucks that I’d probably blow at (links NSFW for artistic nudity)  www.stockroom.com or a website like it (hint hint, I really want a Hobble Belt in my collection, hint).

Spanking is like a jolt to the system, a complex wake up call on all levels.

First you desire it, you can’t spank yourself, so you are looking for it from someone else.  Whether you look for it for punishment or pleasure, you still are satisfied after you get a spanking.

When you brace for impact you are consciously allowing it to happen, you are submitting, and it could be a humiliating humbling moment, or it could take you to a new level of consciousness.

Why you are being spanked can simply be something to do during sex to really slam home the idea of crazy sex; and someone taking the lead, embracing the sexiness of your skin and the shape of your ass.  Some asses just, well, are beggin’ to be spanked… kneeling, thrust upwards, soft, supple… who can resist giving an ass like that a spank? I can’t.

Stockroom.com Leather Spanking Skirt. Yum.

Could be you’re role playing and you’ve been a bad student, or any other worker/boss, Superior and underling scenario.  I enjoy straight forward OTK spankings, there is just something so simple and hot being bent Over The Knees of someone else, trying to keep balanced, the blood rushing to your face and ass or thighs.

Some people spank because they need it, it pleases them to see how far they can push (a consenting) someone.

Then there is the impact itself, the physical hand meeting skin slapping feeling.  The sting, the sound, the blood rushing to create the pink hand print, or maybe a bruise.  The numbness, tingling, swollen feeling… and the pain.  In all degrees, pain is exciting.  It is the reaction to a direct stimuli.  The difference between pain and pleasure is perception.

If you slap my face, ass, thighs or anywhere else for that matter during an every day conversation it is going to hurt, and I’ll likely slap you back for being a fucking jerk-off.  But warm me up in a sexual scene, build the tension and then slap any of those places and I promise I’ll get wet… and I’ll ask you to do it again (please).

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Posted on Aug 04, 2010 by — Dear Jane — 3 comments

Dear Jane: What Are The Boundaries For Rough Sex?

Hey folks, sorry about the day off yesterday.  I had some catching up to do at the porn shop after filming the Ron Jeremy commercials the day before!  Check the twitter for pics and comments, I’m putting up the “interview” soon!

Dear Jane,

What are the boundaries for rough sex?  If its stated to be open, I like to really give it to my girl; make her gag when giving head, spank, slap, anything I like.  I’ve even had girls ask to be choked.  How else can I augment my experience (and hers)?

There is a fine line between rough sex and BDSM.  If you get hard at the thought of choking your partner (after her consent of course), and watching her face get red, her eyes roll back, and her pussy soak your cock… then try using props.  Your ‘rough sex’ fetish might run deeper than you think, plus it could be fun to Master a new tool in the bedroom.

First, make sure you have a safe word.  A word that no one would usually scream out in bed – like poodle, or kumquat. The universal safe word is RED; as in STOP IMMEDIATELY.  Some scenarios where a person is gagged or tied down require a anon verbal “safe word”. I like to use is a PINCH… or shaking/dropping a small bell in my hand.  Anything that is noticeable and out of place works as a signal.  With these signals in place, you will know the boundaries quickly.  Talking, communicating about hard limits also helps.

I’d pick a partner/fuck buddy who has the routine down, and pick up a spanking toy.  Spatula, ping pong paddle, or something made for impact play from a local sex shop or online bdsm shop.  Put her over your knee, and set up an old school spanking role play; teacher & student works well.  You can also say “you aren’t good enough for my hand, you’re just a whore, now you get THIS”.  See how you like using an instrument of torture while spanking, because you already love how her ass gets red for you.

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Posted on Jul 16, 2010 by — Erotica — 2 comments

Erotica: Tonight, She Was A Schoolgirl – Part I

Sandra’s eyes began to uncontrollably fill with tears, but that wasn’t the only part of her that was getting wet. She was completely helpless, not just because she was bound, but because she had no control over her arousal. And as he put the ruler down beside her, he grabbed a fist-full of hair, spread her legs wide and thrust the entirety of himself inside of her taking her breath away.

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Posted on Jun 29, 2010 by — BarbiexHardcore Says — 3 comments

Barbie Says: I Don’t See What You Were Going For There.

Here we are again, back with more of the A-Z guide of sex with the letter “I”.  Since I haven’t divulged into some of my sexual experiences for awhile, I’m going to tell you another bad sex story.  Try not to laugh too much here.

I’m sure I have mentioned my Ex (let’s call him Tom) before in a previous post about anal,  I have many ex’s and I do consider myself the biggest monogamous whore whilst dating them.  But I continue to bring Tom up because, well to put this in the nicest way possible, he was fucking terrible at screwing.  Seriously, it was just awful!

We dated for a year and a half and in that amount of time I had gotten only ONE orgasm.  Tom is my prime example I use when I speak about listening to you’re partners.  Knowing the difference between an “oooooh” and an “ahhhhh” which I have said before.  It’s important because if you think you are doing better than you are at screwing us into a quivering mass of cum, then we’ll just start looking at you sideways.  Here is a small knee slapper in which you can use as an example.

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Posted on Apr 20, 2010 by — BarbiexHardcore Says — Comments Off

Barbie Says: Women aren’t just boobs! (Part 1)

Men this one is specifically for you! We have found a list of 10 erogenous zones for a woman and today you get 10-6! Consider this your lucky day because I am presenting to you the female cheat sheet.


Being a woman and having these lovely parts that drive you men CRAZY, I can understand why you only want to play with those parts, but I am here to let you in on a little secret.  We love it if a person can explore our body, see what we like and don’t like.  Soon enough you’ll be able to tell the difference between an “Oooh” and an “Aaaah”, and trust me…this is a skill you WILL need.

10.Inner thighs- This is a ticklish spot and the tease of all teases.  This is a sensitive spot PACKED full of nerve endings and since it doesn’t get a lot of attention everything feels so new and amazing when its touched.  Kissing, licking and fondling of this will make her giggle and squirm. Use it to tease her, get close to eating south of the border and then back away, focus on what makes her twitch don’t just dive in!

9- Behind the knees- I know, I know, it doesn’t sound sexy but also this is another area that doesn’t get touched often.  I can tell you its a weak spot for me, when you’re doing some nice heavy kissing and hand runs from my ankle up to the back of my knee….oh boy! If she seems to like that give it a kiss or lick, but be careful! It is a sensitive area and sometimes women’s legs are prone to twitching and you getting kicked in the head.  So watch out….

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Posted on Aug 13, 2009 by — Coverage, Events — 5 comments

Attending a Nina Hartley Workshop !!

I was sitting at work one day, putting prices on dildos and ordering movies when the phone rang (as it does).  I knew who it was just by looking at the number; it was my favorite movie distributor Tracy Sales.  She calls me special for new releases, most of her other customers get a lousy email, needles to say Jane Blow is loved.  We do the special orders

“Yes, sure I’ll take 4 copies of Big White Asses #7, but not the Jules Jordan Semen Sippers #19.”  I like doing orders when clients are around, the funny looks are the best.  Tracy also tells me about all the porn stars coming through.  She has ties with Alexis Texas, Belladonna and Jesse Jane to name a few.  Usually my bosses wave off the store signing because we don’t have enough time to advertise and I don’t usually go because I’m working.  This time around she had a special treat for me.

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